I am a self-harmer (I haven't cut since the 24th/05/2013. I'm proud of myself.) And I have lots of ways (some quirky) to help myself.
- Scribble on photos of people in magazines. It distracts you and makes the people ugly so you feel better about yourself.
- Tear apart newspapers, photos or magazines. Ripping something up helps anger self-harming.
- Go to the gym, dance or just exercise. I don't know. It helps.
- Splatter paint. Unless you're inside. I got wrong for doing that.
- Write down your feelings on paper then rip/burn it. I find this the most effective way.
- Break sticks.
- Snap a rubber band or hair band against your wrist.
- Clap your hands until it stings.
- Splash your face with cold water.
- Take a hot/shower bath to calm yourself down.
- Write or paint on yourself.
- Take a bath with ice cubes (numbing sensation)
- Bite into a hot pepper
- Play a musical instrument. I do. I play violin.
- Doodle on sheets of paper
- Write out lyrics to your favourite song.
- Memorize a poem with meaning.
- Learn to swear in another language.
- Go outside and try and guess what the clouds look like.
- Re-organize your room.
- Draw or paint your feelings
- Buy a cuddly toy. I have a few. o//o Shh.
- Wander aimlessly through a book store. Idk o-o"
- Watch a favourite TV show or movie.
- Eat something ridiculously sweet.
- Think of a happy moment in your life and relive it in your head.
- Look at things that are special to you.
- YouTube funny videos work to cheer you up. x'3
- Let yourself cry.
- Go to a beach; write words in the sand and watch them wash away.
- Meditate/yoga.
- Hug a pillow or soft toy.
- Crunch ice.
- Light a candle and watch the flame.
- Remember that you don't have to hurt yourself just because you're thinking of self-harm.
- Make a notebook of song lyrics you can relate too.
- Repeat to yourself, "I don't deserve to be hurt" until you believe it.
- And check your pulse to prove you're alive.
Okay, I know, that's like so many but they all help me.
Mali-chan~
I know it's hard, Malise. Be proud that you haven't cut in more in a year. But don't listen to negative people. Don't let them make you negative. It is depressing to all.
ReplyDeleteCaroline? Are you actually on MSP?
DeleteBecause I really like you for all your comments.
Sometimes I dread seeing new comments on my blog in case it's friends of Angela coming to hate on me again.
Thank you. For not being a total douche towards me like everyone else.
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Love you.
Mali-chan